The other day, my wife was so angry for a while and I had a trouble dealing with her.
According to her, when she had a regular checkup at the clinic, the doctor gave her a comment which made her angry.
It looked like there were many other things which made her upset.
Anyway, the comment looked trivial to me but it was serious to her and she flew into a rage and could not cool down.
If I had told something thoughtless to her, I would have made things worse and we might have got into a fight. I was very careful about it.
I received Ki a lot and tried to send Ki to my wife.
The negative Ki had something to do with this case as usual.
Generally, it is believed that the anger is relieved when we shout or take it out on things around us.
However, the research shows that “expressing anger actually increases aggression” by Dr. Brad Bushman at Iowa State University.
In terms of Ki, if we take our anger out on things, we gather more negative Ki and get influenced more by it.
It says, “out of the mouth comes evil” and it is very common in human relationships.
Between husband and wife, a casual comment can hurt the other and it can escalate to a flight or even a divorce.
We can avoid hurting others with our words if we can think carefully first. They usually come out because of a slip of the tongue.
The unhappy negative Ki which wants to make others unhappy make us say those words.
The people who receive those words are also made hear and remember them clearly by this unhappy negative Ki.
The negative Ki affects both and we should forget them as soon as possible.
If we keep getting influenced by negative Ki, the negative Ki will be accumulated. It is necessary to receive Ki in times like this.
There are a lot of negative feelings, not only anger. I think it is important for us to take in Shinkiko energy so that the negative Ki will not influence us.