I have heard from people who practice Shinkiko that they have become kinder to the people around them. Seeing the happy smiles of others makes you happy too. I feel that this is the essence of “finding the good in yourself.”
Being able to do something for those around you is actually very important. Therefore, using Hi Genki to share your Ki with your family is also a wonderful way to practice “finding the good.” In addition to physical actions, there are also mental aspects to contribute to those around you. Exchanging a smile, listening, expressing gratitude. These small everyday actions actually generate a large amount of positive chi, or light energy.
This is something that is easy to understand in theory, but difficult to put into practice. Speaking from my own perspective, taking care of my son is stressful, but I think a lot of it is due to my own shortcomings. My wife sometimes gets in a bad mood. When she’s in a bad mood, negative energy affects the whole family, so both my son and I are affected by it.
However, telling the person to “cheer up” will not solve the problem. On the contrary, it will obviously only add fuel to the fire. So what should we do? The answer is simple. With the help of Shinkiko’s power, I have no choice but to do what I can to make the other person feel better.
If I have time, I should relax and do whatever I can to relieve stress. I also need to seriously study how I can make my wife and son happy. I think I do a lot for them, but it seems like it’s just something they take for granted.
This means that my thinking is shallow, but it’s quite difficult. For some reason, I find myself getting annoyed at others. But this year, I think I need to get serious about this research.
What do others want? What will truly make them happy? It’s important to observe and try to understand. Sometimes you express gratitude with words, sometimes you listen quietly, and sometimes you offer concrete help. There should be a form of “kindness” that suits the other person.
Being kind to those around you not only makes them happy, but also makes you happy when you see their smile. This cycle attracts positive energy and repels negative energy. By using Hi Genki, you can accumulate positive energy every day, which will brighten up your entire family and the environment around you. As the new year approaches, I’ve had many failures, but I’m trying to keep this in mind.