The door of the kitchen cupboard was open and I hit my head on it. I immediately asked my wife, “Why did you leave it open?” and she replied, “No need to scold me.” I just wanted to know why it happened, but my wife took it as a scolding.
Thirty years ago when I was working for a company, when trying to determine the cause of a product defect, it was natural to ask “why?” and “how?”. Finding out the causes and taking measures to address them would eliminate the defect… this is a common-sense approach in the scientific world.
The same can be said about the world of Ki. Negative phenomena are related to the influence of negative Ki, and this method of inquiry is suitable for finding out what is influencing them. Asking yourself “why?” and “how?” is an effective way to solve problems.
However, asking “why?” or “how?” to others can actually be the worst question ever. This is because the moment you ask, the other person will already feel blamed or angry. For those who grew up with negative experiences of being told such things by their family or friends, it’s like asking for the source of a fight.
In times like these, you need to change the question. In my case, I would ask something like “When did you open it?”, which is a question that does not contain any blaming nuance. If you end up blaming the other person even a little, you are giving them negative energy, so be careful. Also, people don’t change unless they want to change themselves, so if you want the other person to change, you should think of questions and words that will naturally make them realize it themselves.
This is something we have to study, and in that sense, words can be really difficult.
The energy of Shinkiko from the universe enhances the Ki of the person who receives it and brings harmony to human relationships.
By incorporating Hi Genki into your daily life and continually taking in positive energy, you can think of questions and words that will sympathize with the other person’s feelings…in other words, it is a practice of thinking from the other person’s perspective. Take a moment to think about how your words will be received by the other person. By doing so, your relationship with the other person will change for the better. I am also currently studying it.
A single word can greatly change the flow of Ki. Instead of blaming the other person, you should listen carefully to find the answer together. To do this, you need to receive Shinkiko firmly and raise your own Ki.